Perfectionism Rehab: Dispatches From a Detoxing Perfectionist
“ It’s really fucking hard to tolerate uncertainty, disruption, and change in all aspects of one’s life at once when you don’t even know who you are and who you are supposed to be. And when SO much is going on, it’s too big to fear. Fear is specific. It is outward in the fact of a threat. When you fear something you have the opportunity to move away from it. Anxiety is different. With anxiety, you don’t know what the fuck to do, because it’s all internal. There is no specific threat. ” —Faith G. Harper, This is Your Brain on Anxiety: What Happens and What Helps A few months ago, I read Rosie O’Donnell’s 2007 memoir Celebrity Detox , which peaked my interest after finishing Ladies Who Punch —an inside look of the daytime talk show The View . Celebrity Detox was published a few months after the end of Rosie’s infamously troubled one-season run as the moderator of The View and discusses how, after the end of her own daytime talk show in 2002, she began a four-year break from the spotl...